I asked this question to God, because I feel like I don't know how sometimes. I didn't quite listen for an answer, I thought of answers myself. -do I pray more? -do I read the Bible more? -do I spend more time with people? like that verse where it says something like 'what you do for the least of these, you do unto me'? -sing worship songs? then I heard him say.. "spend more time with me" man.. so true. How am I supposed to love someone by just purely doing things for them? For any relationship you build, you gotta spend the quality time together. Its so simple... but not so easy. I find that God has been speaking to me in ways that make things seem to be so simple.. but they are never easy. simple and hard, not simple and easy